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Amongst all the relationship in this world, those of couples and those of parents and kids are the most difficult and yet important ones.
Rev. Ock HanEum, the pastor who started one of the biggest churches in Korea, "The Church of Love" in SeoChoDong in Seoul died of a cancer. Before he passed away, he left a lesson to his favorite disciple pastors as his confession as well, not on "how to preach" but on "what not to do as he failed."
He said, "I failed greatly in one area which I do not want you to repeat. I failed to embrace my kids to uphole them, often having poured all my efforts on doing the church works alone, and I now realize too late that that's why all my kids went astray, and I do not want you all to repeat the mistake that I made. Little trees can not grow well under the shadow of a bigger tree, and I realize this too late, please do not repeat the mistake that I made."
The example of Agape Love of God can only be seen among mankind in the mothers' love for their kids. Spouses want similar agape love as mother's love from each other, wife from her husband and husband from his wife.
To wives, their husbands are like the eldest son of their husbands' previous wives, and thus they treat their husbands likewise. And then similarly wives expect their husbands to behave like filial sons to their parents. And such expectation of wives for filiality from their husbands, no husbands can meet, and that's a grim reality.
Wives should not expect filial duties from their pseudo eldest sons to whom they did not give birth, and husbands should not expect from their stepmother like wives mother's love. And that's the only way couples can maintain happy marriages, I believe.
Well, isn't Agape Love that no man can do? -Hweenam |